For Parents of Children at Any Age
Dispelling Parenting Myths
- Uncover common myths that undermine parenting efforts
- Gain healthy, productive perspectives on the parenting task
Parenting Assessment
- Discover your parenting style
- Understand how different styles affect a child’s development
- Know the strengths and weaknesses of the different people on the family team
Communication and Parenting Styles
- Relating communication to parenting styles.
- Recognize common pitfalls in communication
- Learn ways to really say what you mean and mean what you say
Parenting with Purpose – an introduction to creating healthy boundaries
(strongly recommended as a foundation class)
- Parenting with an “Eye to the Future”
- Boundaries defined
- 3 Specific Parenting Roles
For Parents of Preschoolers
Recipe for Growth
- Defining love and limits
- Taking a closer look at ‘time’
- Combining all the ingredients
The Power of Relationship – Part 1
- What is attachment and why is it so important?
- Attachment Goals 1-2
The Power of Relationship – Part 2
- Attachment review
- Attachment Goal 3-9
Competence – “I can do it by myself!”
- Reasons for developing competency
- What’s being modeled?
- Being a talent scout
Building a moral storehouse
- Reasons behind your ‘yes’ and ‘no’
- Ways in which morals are instilled
- Exploring values
Spirituality and children
- World view and how it affects the way we parent
- Age of faith and passing on your beliefs
Born this way – Personality vs Character
- Differentiating between Personality and Character
- Seeing character as a life long gift to your child
For Parents of School Age Children
Parents with Healthy Boundaries
- Avenues of influence
- Obstacles to boundary training – why we don’t do what we know we should do
Creating Respect for Boundaries in your Child
- Consequences vs Punishment
- Formula for Growth – making boundaries real for your child
Developing Responsibility in your Child
- What is a child responsible for?
- Children can become problem solvers
Who’s got the power?
- Healthy power vs manipulative power
- What should children have power over?
- Winning the war on power struggles
Respect – what it can look like
- 5 behavioural goals that demonstrate respect
- Giving the gift of ‘space’
What makes them tick?
- Defining the internal ‘because’
- Four stages of motive development
Perseverance – Pushing through pain
- The difference between hurt and harm
- Making ‘pain’ an ally for growth
Reactivity vs Proactivity
- Making tantrums a thing of the past
- Teaching your child to ‘get what he/she wants’ – positively
- Bully-proofing your child
Envy – a poison with an antidote
- Entitlement – an attitude that corrupts
- Gratitude – an attitude that grows
- Giving, Limiting and Containing – a 3 step gratitude process
Passivity to Activity
- Identifying 6 passive behaviours (e.g. whining, procrastination)
- 7 reasons underlying passive bahaviour
- Having self-motivated children
Honesty is the best policy
- Creating a home where honesty is truly valued
- Becoming “SAFE” parents
- How to respond to failures
Safe communication – a rare art form
- Ten guidelines for making communication safe
- Benefits of becoming safe communicators
Conflict resolution – learning to ‘fight well’
- Non-expression is not ok
- Practising boundary words
- Getting out of the middle
6 Steps to Implementing Boundaries
- Have a plan to see your children through the challenges
- Build healthy patterns for family life and beyond
For enquires or bookings contact Cora Ha at Family Foundations Ltd.
Phone: 97712682
Email: ch@familyfoundationsltd.org
Website: www.familyfoundationsltd.org